It is such an amazing feeling to know a man you are eyeing for so long likes you, too. Having a mutual feeling brings butterfly in your stomach. But what if the man you’ve been dreaming about is not interested in you. Would you make the first move and swallow your pride whole? Remember that you’re a woman, and a guy who has invested an effort to get his girl would not just throw her easily. It is true that men have different preferences when it comes to choosing their partner. However, there are many ways to make him fall for you. So, sit back and relax as these five (5) easy-to-follow tips are on their way to help you make a man crazy over you.
1. GROOM YOURSELF Men could not help but to admire women who have a good-looking physique. Try checking your looks from your clothing to your hair styles. Perhaps, it’s your looks that turn him off. However, if you don’t have a slender body, you might opt to hit the gym and let your sweat drip off your skin. Surely, no men will turn their heads back from your curvaceous body. Go to the mall and buy makeups to smear on your face. Believe it or not, nowadays, people perceive beauty as defined by society. Have you ever found yourself looking up to those glamorous and sexy celebrities on televisions, in magazines, or even in those towering bill boards? If women admire beauties of their same sex, how much more on men? Needless to say, it is really undeniable that men, who are born with this wildest instinctive behavior, could not help themselves but to fantasize those girls who have a beauty to die for.
2. GESTURES AND BODY LANGUAGE
Women’s gestures and body language are more powerful than you think. Have you seen a man fall in love with a not-so-good-looking woman. Aside from other aspects, it’s her posture and body gestures that help her hook the man’s heart. So, don’t just slack off and wait Cupid do the magical thing. Bring your body into the limelight and explore the art of walking by practicing at home, in front of a huge mirror, or by watching tutorial videos online. You will soon discover a posture and a body gesture that match your personality and are unique, but make sure not to overdo it, otherwise your man might think you’re crazy. Also, bear in mind that men are keen observers of their opposite sex, from the way girls stand or walk to the way they sit on a chair. Every nook and cranny of your movement might leave a good or bad impression on men. So, be mindful of your posture and body gestures.
3. LOOK HIM IN THE EYES
It’s amazing how two people fall in love by just merely looking at each other’s eyes. According to a study, a pupil’s eye gets bigger when it sees something attractive. However, it’s not about knowing if a man has feelings for you, so what if he has. Remember that you’re a woman and that your goal is to make him do the first move. So, whenever you’ve got the chance to see him, look him straight in his eyes. Hold your stare for a few seconds as if you’re telling him that you have this beautiful pair of eyes, and then slowly look away. This technique might sound hilarious to you, but that is how those eyes work. Surely, those stares of yours will stay in his head, or if you’re lucky enough, he might end up dreaming those sparkling eyes of yours when he gets to sleep.
4. MAKE THE REAL ‘YOU’ SHINE
Trying to convince a man to like you is nerve-racking and depressing at the same time. You don’t want to create a new ‘you’ that is not you, or the ‘you’ you are not comfortable to be. Have you heard the song “Lose you to Love Me” by Selena Gomez. Well, you could comprehend it by the title itself. If you try to pretend to be someone else, chances are, you might end up revealing your true personality without you noticing it, or worst, your man will discover it soon after. You don’t want him to think you’re fake. Put your mask off and let the real you shine. Losing yourself just to please him won’t do you any good. So, try to develop your personality, take good care of your body, and create a better version of yourself to get the man of your dreams without compromising the real you.
5. SMILE AND LAUGH
Laughing is contagious. A woman who is always happy could instantly make a man joyful, too. This, in turn, would leave him wondering as to why he becomes happy out of nowhere. Smiling at a guy would eventually send chills down his spine. But make sure you don’t have anything stuck between your teeth; otherwise it would be a huge turn off for him. Also, keep in mind to smile rarely at him because if you smile that often, he would think that you’re the one interested in him. It will eventually give him an impression that you’re easy to get. Make him do the first move. Make him wait. Make him think that he has to exert some efforts. So, when the time comes that you are already together, he would value your worth.
Congratulations! You’re on your way to being an expert in hooking a man’s heart. Have confidence, patience, and faith in yourself. Put some extra efforts on everything you do, and remember that you’re more than your flaws. You’re unique, and that you are worth waiting for. Don’t forget to always wear your charm with you as the man of your dreams is one step closer to you. Cheers!
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